Sunday, September 2, 2007

I've learnt

I've learnt that we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.


I've learnt that no matter how good a friend is, they are going to hurt you every once in a while, And you must forgive them for that.


True friendship continues to grow even over longest distances, same goes for true love.


That you can do something in an instant, that could give you heartache for life.


I've learnt that its taking me a long time to become the person, you want me to be.


I've learnt that you should leave loved ones with loving words, it may be the last time you them.


That you can keep going, long after you can't.


I've learnt that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.


I've learnt that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is the passion soon fades away, And there'd better be something else to take its place.


I've learnt that hero's are the people, who do what has to be done, when it has to be done, regardless of the consequences.


Money is a lousy way of keeping score.


That my friend and I can do anything or nothing, And still have the best time together.


I've learnt that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you are down, will be the ones to help you get back up.


That sometimes when I am angry I have the right to be angry,

but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.


I've learnt that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to,

it doesn't mean that they don't love you with all they have.


It isn't always enough to be forgiven by others, sometimes you need to forgive yourself.


I've learnt that maturity has nothing to do with the number of birthdays you've celebrated,

but its more to do with the experiences you have had and what you've learnt from them.


That however bad your heart is broken, the world doesn't stop for your grief.


I've learnt that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are,

but we are responsible for what we become.


I've learnt that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other,

And just because they don't, it doesn't mean they do.


You shouldn't be eager to find out a secret, it could change your life forever.


I've learnt that two people can look at exactly the same thing, and still see something totally different.


That your life can be changed in a matter of hours, by people who don't even know you.


I've learnt that even when you have no more to give,

When a friend cries out, you will find the strength to help.


I've learnt that credentials on the wall doesn't make you a decent human being.


That people you care about most in life, Are the ones taken away from you too soon.



4 comments:

Unknown said...

Now here comes the real situation. Nothing has changed, except some duties and responsibilities. Suppose when you are going to marry with a person whom you love very much, will the life change for you.....no....that time too...your friends wont change, ur relatives wont change and ur parents wont change...the only thing which is changing, the place and priorities in the relationship. Dont let the others change ur life. Nobody can change you.
And as far as I know you u r the only person who can rule in ur life.

Unknown said...

too many reasons i make
too many ways to take
life still goes around
more lost than found
losing is not an option but fate
everytime u try to go against what is written in ur fate
all one can do is hope
u dont get screwed when u are high on dope
dosent take much to lose control
at times, life's darker than coal
know ur place and know a cup from a bowl
maybe after all of that ; u'll know ur actual role post scrap cancel

Janani Gopalakrishnan Vikram said...

That's the most touching piece of writing I've read in a long time, Ann! It spoke straight to my heart.

Unknown said...

Dear Jan,

Thanks a ton for the words of appreciation. Its great to know that your writing is capable of touching hearts.

Thanks again
Ann